So when your wife/girl was in hospital after giving birth, what gift (if any) did you take her? I know it's the 'thing' to take her a gift, but I'm not sure what. She's already got an engagement ring, eternity ring, necklaces, a locket etc. so I'm not sure about jewellery, I just wanted to get some ideas from others.
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Fade
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Well she keeps looking at rings and saying 'Ooh that one's nice' and playing down that she wants it, so I might see what I can do in the jewellery department.
Fade, gays can't be dads, that's why you ain't one. Still, congratulations on the engagement to Relic though. Which one of you got down on all fours to present the ring?
thedreampolice
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No! no gift, you are there and will help raise the child. Best gift you could give!
When I turn up empty handed she ain't gonna feel the same way haha.
Da IllFellaz
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i didnt give her anything......
hard dick and bubble gum?
hard dick and bubble gum?
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agreed. I didn t get my wife anything. Put all money to the kid. That formula is a bitch.
DJ Excellence
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keep it simple, get her some flowers...no need to buy jewelry.....keep your money, you'll need it
I agree too, now is no time to be buying trinkets, like relic said, the child and your support is the best present you could give. Being there for the birth is the most important thing. IMO.
If a lack of trinket is that big a deal, then I personally would have to question the basis for the relationship.
EDIT: If you feel personally that you must buy her something, then how about a locket to put a picture of the newborn baby into.
Lol, nah it's nothing like that. It's more for me really, I like buying her things and spoiling her. I think I'm gonna take Excellence's suggestion and just get her some flowers, something simple. We're both gonna be pre-occupied anyways. Thanks peoples, appreciate the replies.
What you need to be prepared for is the fact that she's gonna get all depressed while your super happy about the baby. That will make you wanna lop her head off because it has no rhyme or reason.
What she's been hinting about btw is getting married.
What she's been hinting about btw is getting married.
You're sick.
And about the marriage thing, we've spoken about it and it's gonna happen next year some time. She wants it to be when the little man is there in a little suit haha.
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dude, you've got a kid together now. there's no need to buy any more gifts - you got what you wanted: you're stuck with eachother. forever. whether you like it or not.
flowers sounds reasonable to me. material nature: know it as an enemy.
